HARD TALK ABOUT OCCULT LOVE SPELLS
(From a comment on a thread in the Islamic Theurgy and White Sorcery list)
Ho, o you wine-bearer, give over the cup of wine and pass it around,
For Love was easy at first, but then complications arose! ~ Hafiz, ghazal 1 (my trans.).
اَلا یا اَیُّهَا السّاقی اَدِرْ کَأسَاً و ناوِلْها * که عشق آسان نمود اوّل ولی افتاد مشکلها
Love is a stranger to both worlds [too],
In it are insanities seventy and two! (my trans.)
~ Rumi, Masnavi, 4719.
با دو عالم عشق را بيگانگی
وندر او هفتاد و دو ديوانگی
Love
spells in a situation where either one or another party has strayed or
the emotions are waning usually don't work, never mind that it is a form
of black sorcery because it seeks to manipulate another person into an
emotion that they naturally lack. There are always consequences that
come with such spells too, none of them good.
Be
that as it may, from my perspective, a healthy relationship only works
when the third party is the Spirit who binds it. Modern man-woman
relationships have largely turned their backs on this entire
perspective, hence why people keep jumping from one to the next -
damaging themselves and the other party in the process thereby leaving a
world that has become broken and like a toxic emotional toilet where
everyone assesses everyone else like a piece of inanimate merchandise to
be obtained and then discarded on a whim. In such a world no one even
believes in Love anymore! So if you want your Love back, first go and
learn what Love even is:
In Pre-Eternity the reflective-ray of Your Beauty consented to Self-Disclose,
Love appeared and its fire blazed forth throughout the worlds! ~ Hafiz (my trans.)
ﺩﺭ ﺍﺯﻝ ﭘﺮﺗﻮ ﺣﹹﺴﻨﺖ ﺯ ﺗﺠﻠﹽﻰ ﺩﻡ ﺯﺩ
ﻋﺸﻖ ﭘﻴﺪﺍ ﺷﺪ ﻭ ﺁﺗﺶ ﺑﻪ ﻫﻤﻪ ﻋﺎﻟﻢ ﺯﺩ
Here
let me give you a definition of Love based on an acrostic of its Arabic
letters: The letter Ꜥayn (ع) of ꜤIshq (عشق) (ecstatic love) represents
the Eyes of Truth (عيون الحقّ) Ꜥuyūn al-ḥaqq; and the letter shīn (ش)
of ꜤIshq represents the Healing by the Truth (شفاء بِالحقّ) shafā'
bi'l-ḥaqq; and the letter qāf (ق) of ꜤIshq represents the Approach or
Nearness of the Truth (قراب الحقّ) qurāb al-ḥaqq. Also, the letter ḥā'
(ح) of Ḥubb (Love) (حُبّ) is the Name of God, the Living (الحيّ)
al-ḥayy, and the letter Bā' (ب) of Ḥubb is the Name of God, the
Originator/Creator (البارئ) al-bārī', so understand!
And
so when you have understood the allusion here, know that a man or woman
who doesn't take their vow and commitment seriously, cannot take
anything seriously - including themselves - because such a person is
lost to themselves and to everything else. Is such a person even worth
taking back in the place and space they are now? With me, the issue is
cut and dry: fidelity to a love partner, is fidelity to God, Allah
Herself (سبحانه وتعالى). To be loyal to one, is to be loyal to the
Other. Betrayal of one, is the betrayal of the Other. Period, full-stop!
Now,
there is a saying whereby you will find the right love partner on the
Path to the All-High when seeking the All-High Itself such that your
seeking for the Unseen One results in the appearance of the seen one
that becomes your mirror to the Divine such that this relationship now
becomes then an extension of the sulūk itself (the wayfaring to God)
where both parties then journey to God together within each other: body,
mind and spirit. In such a relationship each party contemplates the
Divine within the Other. This is a reason why in the Fatimiya I have
made the vows to be exchanged between a couple to be:
Verily we are from God and indeed in God we are married/coupled!
إنّا لله وإنّا بِالله زاوجون
In
these times of confusion, all else becomes vanity and guaranteed
heartbreak. So find someone like that who is prepared to do the Work
with you, and all else will take care of itself because no temporary
love spell can ever give you something like this because this is the
real love magic, the Philosopher's Stone itself!